![]() ![]() You know, it’s like forgiving the person, but also wanting them to go to jail and suffer. That’s a hard one, right? Oh, this one is so difficult to forgive is, you know, a spiritual or even a Christian ethic. Justice versus mercy: to forgive a person and stay or to get justice and burn the house down and leave. You have to recognize when your brain is there, it’s like, oh, wait, which one right now deserves this prioritization? What’s right for me is an individual versus what’s right for the community. And sometimes that’s a hard one, right? That’s a really hard one. Right? That’s an individual choice versus a social choice community. But it’s also right to stay here and to care for my family or be around my friends. And so the decisions that are like – when, when you leave your home or you leave your town, it’s right for me as an individual to go to a new city. It’s right for me to be good, you know, steward here or a good leader here. Right? Or you know what? I want to go leave this job, but I love my coworkers. It also feels right to stay and take care of the kids. Right? Parents going through a divorce, right? It’s right for me to want to go be happy and live my life and get out of this relationship. It’s a choice where you’re like, it’s right for me to go do this for myself, but it’s also right to stay and do this for them. Here are the dilemmas he talks about: the first decision dilemma is individual versus community. The decision dilemma or the values dilemma is coming from four areas because see, it is right either way when you face these dilemmas. That’s what he called, a values dilemma or a decision dilemma. Here’s why your decision is hard: based on everything we talked about, if you still can’t get there, it’s you’re stuck in a value dilemma. ![]() A value conflict is a reason a decision is hard these four reasons and write down, it’s really powerful. Why is it that when you draw that, you know, line down the page and you compare and contrast, you can make the case for both angles? That’s where it’s hard, right? And he said that there are four dilemmas, what – what I call value conflicts, or I think he actually used that phrase at some points, too. And what I loved about this book is he and I taught it differently, but I love how you framed it about how the hard decisions in your life are the ones where both decisions are right. It’s a book I recommend to all my clients. Rushworth Kidder, K-I-D-D-E-R, wrote a book called How Good People Make Tough Decisions. Subscribe to the free motivational podcast on iTunes or Stitcher.) 1. It has also been the #1 Podcast in all of iTunes and is regularly in the top podcasts in the Self-Help and Health categories around the globe. Filmed in one take, Motivation With Brendon Burchard has become one of the most viewed unscripted, direct-to-camera self-help series in the history of YouTube. Please note that this episode, like all episodes, features Brendon speaking extemporaneously–he is unscripted and unedited. ![]() ![]() [The following is the full transcript of this episode of Motivation With Brendon Burchard. I give weekly prizes, gratitude and shout-outs to our students, so post a screenshot or video on Instagram and use #TheBrendonShow! I can’t wait to hear your thoughts about this episode! Write your journal, track your habits, take wellness challenges, watch live influencers teaching new life strategies, and join a global community of positive and supportive high achievers excited to improve their lives! Get the app on Apple app store here. Make self-improvement a way of life and get the GrowthDay app! GrowthDay features all your personal development tools, coaching and community in one place. Stop letting limiting beliefs and lack of confidence hold you back! Learn the SKILLS of confidence from 9 of the world’s best personal development experts in the most comprehensive Confidence training ever created! $400 worth of training – just $7.99 today! Get the Confidence Masterclass!
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